5 Months of Finn



Can someone please tell me why "5 months" sounds so much older than four? At four months we were still closer to "newborn." Now, we're closer to being a HALF OF A YEAR old! What? But baby boy I just had you? Now I get it... I do. Those moms...you know the ones...the one's that make you do quick math when you ask how old their babe is. "Oh, he's 64 weeks old." Because if you keep telling their age by week then they'll never truly get older, right? Wrong. Our little bubba's are going to keep growing regardless. That's proven every morning when he wakes up in skin tight jammies that you swear were loose before you put him to bed. Don't get me wrong, I love his little growing self. He's learning so much and it's so fun to watch. I adore him. I freaaaaking love. our. son. Finn at 5 months:


  
Developmental Milestones:

While on belly props himself on knees and attempts to push up (in crawling position).

"Worming" around during tummy time.

Had his first pureed foods: sweet potatoes and pears.

Held his own bottle throughout the entire feeding.

Choosing toys he's most interested in out of a line-up.

Very aware of surroundings-looks for us when we say his name.

Looks Like: A damn angel. He's gorgeous. I still see mostly John but am starting to see more of myself around his mouth-cheeks-jaw area.
Eating: Still about 5 oz. of breastmilk every 2.5 hours. We tried the teeny bit of puree but decided we wanted to wait until he was 6 months to make it a daily "menu" item.
Weighs: We have an 18 pounder. <3

Inches: 27 1/4


Play:  Loves to gnaw on the face of his fox, sock monkey, and jungle monkey. Is an avid fan of dance parties and awkward body movements from his dad and I. Still loves his alone time on his jungle mat. Prefers to play with toys in his high chair over saucer or swing.
Sleep: Has been variable. Some nights he's back to sleeping through them, while others he's up 2-3 times. Currently trying to establish a schedule!:)

Size: 6 to 6-9 month clothes. Size 3 diapers.

Hair: His hair is growing back again! Cute blonde peach fuzz on his round little gourd.

Eyes: Blueeee Blue Blue!

4 Months of Finn Aloysius


Well we totally passed by the 3 month mark and are now at 4months! I started back up at work full-time and the last month or so has been a time of craziness coming to some sort of functionality with regard to routine amongst my little tribe. I’m happy to say that we definitely have gotten the swing of things, despite me still wishing I could just be a stay-at-home momma [insert drastic cry face here]. Finn continues to be a dreamy little babe. I mean really, what was life even like before him? Obsession doesn’t even come close to how I feel about him. I love him so much that I feel sorry for him having to deal with such a (s)mother. Finn in a nutshell at 4 months old:

Developmental Milestones:

Rolls from back to belly

Gut laughs. Like real, hard, gut laughs. <3

Holds himself up with arms straightened during tummy time

Can perform circus-type balancing acts with his co-star, daddy

Can hold intellectual babble conversations

“Scoots” when on belly

Looks Like: He is still 100% his father. Though, he does make a lot of my facial expressions.

Eating: About 5 oz. of breastmilk every 2.5 hours. We recently just introduced a teeny bit of rice cereal to him a couple nights ago as well, he didn’t seem to really like or dislike it.
Weighs: 15.8 lbs

Inches: 26 inches


Play:  A very vocal little babe. Still loves his alone time on his jungle mat, has warmed up to the mama-roo, and loves his new Johnny Jumper! We recently bought him a play saucer that he’s getting used to and…we introduced him to Little Einstein’s…this.kid.loves.little.einsteins.

Sleep: I’m kicking myself in the tush right now for bragging these last few months that he’s slept through the night since he was about 6 weeks old. This past week he’s been getting up almost every 2 hours! Though I will say I think his cold had something to do with it. I adore the middle-of-the-night snuggles, but fingers crossed this “4 month regression” turns around!

Size: Wearing all 6 month clothes. Size 2 diapers.

Hair: He’s definitely a little blondie. Unfortunately, he had a bit of cradle cap that daddy couldn’t help but pick at…leaving him with some actual bald spots!! He’s still the cutest little bald babe that ever was, however.  

Eyes: Totally rocking some gorgeous blues right now.

Modern Wrap Goodness


Bubs and I were oh so lucky enough to have been chosen to be featured in Modern Wrap's Modern Motherhood series (#MWModernMotherhood on Instagram!). I've said it 100 times over and I'll say it again, baby wearing has been a lovely little dream. I get to get things done around the house and snuggle Finn simultaneously...win! Plus, it's been said that wearing your babe helps with their cognition as there's more opportunity to interact in the environment around them...double win. Modern Wrap is a line that carries wraps, nursing/car seat covers, + swaddling blankets. The fabrics/patterns these items come in are (modern) and gorgeous...really. We love the bit of stretch in the fabric as it allows little man to be snug but comfortable when I'm wearing him. We chose the color natural for the classic carrier wrap, a black + white stripe for the swaddle blanket, and marbled grey for the nursing wrap. Below you'll find the answers to some questions Modern Wrap wanted to know about us regarding this new adventure into parenthood:
What has motherhood taught you?
-Motherhood has taught me to be present in the moment. To be mindful and to soak in the beauty of my every breath that is spent with my little. It’s taught me that there really is a form of love so unconditional that it aches. It’s taught me to toss comparison out the window, to rock the scent of spit-up, and to leave the dishes in the sink, because these moments are precious and father time certainly isn’t going to slow down for us.

What do you want most for your child?
-As a new mother naturally I should say I want the world for him.  But really, I want for him to be both a compassionate and passionate little soul. To believe in and stay true to himself despite a world that will constantly challenge that.  To grow in an environment in which he knows how incredibly loved he is. To experience happiness in whatever form it may come, and to have an admirable, wild imagination that never fades.

If you breastfeed your baby, what was the biggest challenge you experienced with breastfeeding? How did you overcome it?
-Breastfeeding is not for wimps, I’ll certainly say that. Initially my little guy latched and took to it like a champ, but shortly after my breasts became so engorged that it was nearly impossible for him to latch on which led to a lot of frustration and crying on both ends. I was so overwhelmed emotionally and actually questioned my ability to continue breastfeeding him. But, by practicing patience and mindfulness on top of having plenty of “nurse-in” days, I’m happy to say we overcame the days of struggle. Feedings now are such a moment of peace and magic for us, I’m so happy I stuck with it.

Ava Anderson Non Toxic: Baby Massage Lotion Product Review

First of all, I genuinely do not know how we haven't come across this wonderful company sooner. Ava Anderson Non Toxic is a brand devoted to offering a line of products that are completely rid of toxins and/or chemicals. They utilize 100% natural ingredients, using skin safe essential oils (which you know we love) to naturally fragrant their goods.They don't just offer skin care products either, they go above and beyond with lines like Ava Auto, Pets, Home, Hair, BABY and Garden, just to name a few. Ah, perfect for our little fam!
We were given the opportunity to give the baby body & massage lotion a go from their Ava Baby line, and boy are we happy about it! Finn may not get a bath every night, but he is a boy who loves his nightly baby massages (so naturally we were pretty pumped to try it out). Six nights/massages later...we're in love! Not only is the lotion itself just absolutely wonderful, but it gives this momma peace of mind to know that I'm not soaking my precious little's skin with harsh chemicals.  You can follow this link http://avaandersonnontoxic.com/why-non-toxic/ to get more information on how to identify dangerous chemicals and other tidbits of info such as how the FDA does not regulate the personal care products industry (because many labels on some of our beloved products say organic or natural, when the reality is there are still chemicals in them). Ava products are 100% chemical free and completely natural. Did I say that already? I'll say it again...one hundred percent of goodness.
S L A T H E R away without a care in the world, my friends.

Review:
Scent: It's scented using lavender essential oil so it has a genuine lavender smell, not that artificial lavender scent you get in a lot of other products. So calming, and not just for my babe! I swear as I'm massaging his chunky little leg rolls I drift off into a relaxing world of my own because of the smell; and it's not overpowering either.
Consistency: Nice. You'd think because there are a couple different base oils in it that it'd be super greasy feeling but it isn't at all! Not too thick and not too runny.
Color: cream/natural
Size: 8 oz. Despite using it every night I think this bottle will last us a while due to not needing much when using. The oils in it make it easy to spread/go a long way and it overall absorbs into the skin nicely. Also, being it holds 8 oz. the container is not too bulky. Translation: easy to toss into a diaper bag and take with you everywhere you go (because we have).
Price: Completely budget friendly. This 8 oz. bottle goes for $12.95 on their website.
Effectiveness: It really is a soothing lotion that's perfect before bedtime and calming down my little. Not to mention, his skin still smells delicious in the morning after using it at bedtime. I also want to note that my little guy had a rough/bumpy/rash-y patch on one of his meaty thighs, and after massaging it with the lotion only once it was cleared up the next day (not sure if this was because of the lotion, but it was the only other variable different in our nightly routine).
O V E R A L L: a budget friendly, wonderful smelling, good for your health, natural product that you can feel good about using. I am so happy that we had the opportunity to test this out. And seriously I can't wait to get my hands on all the other goodness this company offers...a PET line? We have 5 animals...we're sold.



Finn Aloysius: {2 Months Old}



Two months now! It's no joke when they tell you not to blink. Everything happens so, so fast. Finn is growing like a little weed, and as much as I hate seeing the itsy bitsy-ness disappear, his growing self gets more fun each and every day. He's so much more alert and interactive. He looks at me with his blues like he really knows who I am now...and those stare-downs while breastfeeding just melt me to mush. Such a happy little man too, ugh. I mean of course there are fussy moments...but 90% of the time he's happy/content as can be. Here's some more 2 month goodness:

Developmental Milestones:
Holding his head up like a champ
Turning his head/smiling in response to our voices/sounds
Laughing
Rolling from belly to back
Holding his head and chest up during tummy time
Uses his legs to 'jump' while holding his arms
Looks Like: Totally dad. Some people say they are seeing a good mix of us both now, but I'm still seeing his daddy.
Sleep: 7 to 8 hour stretches nightly. Cat naps throughout the day :)

Eating: Breastfeeding about every 2 hours. I started to stock milk in preparation for returning to work too (crying) so in the night while he's sleeping I pump.


Weighs: 12 lbs. 7 oz. (per doctor's visit, in the photo it says 4 oz. but that was via home scale).
Inches: 24 inches! Again, the photo is slightly off due to my lack of at-home measuring skills.
Play:  Coo's and squeaks in response to my ridiculous mommy-baby talk. Loves his alone play time in the morning where he just lays on his jungle mat and stares at a monkey. Is seriously in awe of ceiling fans. Loves to stare at some canvas art he has in his nursery during diaper changes. AND he started giggling!! We even caught his first true giggle on camera, yay!
Size: Wearing 3 (getting snug) and 3-6 month clothes. Size 1 diapers.
Hair: I swear there is some hair there! It's just so light he looks like a bald old man in most photos (the most adorable old man, however).  
Eyes: Deep blue, but they're starting to get lighter!


What He Does (and doesn't) Like: 
LOVES his night time baby massages
Has taken a liking to swaddling at bedtime (though we have to wait until he's super drowsy already to wrap him up in one)
Likes to be worn in a baby wrap/carrier (but for no longer than an hour)
Falls asleep to the sound of the vacuum and hair dryer
Needs some kind of muffled noise to sleep (we use the baby sleep sounds app)
LOVES to look at his cute self in a mirror
Loves to snuggle in the morning
Does NOT like a soiled diaper. Like, change me immediately.
Does NOT like being naked, unless he is in his tub
Likes to swing
Likes mom's left boob more than her right. ( I mean seriously, night and day difference in size now). 
LOVES the bottoms of his feet rubbed/touched
Likes to go out on the boat 
Does NOT like Lake Michigan coldness on his feet (or any cold water).
Likes when momma sings to him
Loves to be outside




Emotional Spillage

Oh Finn, what you do to me. I sit here with you napping across my lap, feeling your big belly breaths go in and out, wondering what it is that you’re dreaming about right now. What’s going on in that little mind of yours? Everything is so new and exciting for you, as it is for us sweet boy…just in different ways. It’s amazing the amount of change you’ve brought amongst us. Clearly we expected a world of change pending your arrival…but never to this extent. Never to the extent to which the way I think about every little thing in life and what I want for it has changed. Never to the extent to which the concept of “planning” has almost completely dissipated.  Planning. Nearly my entire life prior has been a life of planning. Planning to go to college, grad school, when to start my career, when to get married, when to start trying for a baby, what we’re doing over the weekend…you get the idea. Always living for the future despite my best attempts to stay present in the moment. But you, my little monkey, you’ve single handedly managed to turn a planning-obsessed woman into someone who doesn’t want to think ahead further than dinner time. I bask in every millisecond that I get to spend with you. I’ve never felt more present in my entire life and what a force field of a feeling that is. Sure, there have been moments in my life where I was completely mindful and present, but other times it was hard work which is why yoga and meditation became such necessities. But with you, living in the present comes so easily.  I just watch you so intently…like it’s my job…and in staring at you for 1 minute I can tell you that about 50 different questions cross my mind. “You’re mine?” is the one that frequents most often.

{A Day in the Life}

Hello all! We've had a few people ask us recently about what a typical day looks like in our little world these days, so I figured I'd write a quick snippet of just that! Of course each day is different as there's new places to go and wonderful people to see, but aside from those ventures, this is what remains pretty consistent in our day to day:
First of all, we've been spoiled by our human as he's now sleeping like a little champ at night. Typically, he wakes up for the first time at around 3:30-4 am, but this past week he's been making it to 5:00 am. I feel like I could take on the world after getting that much sleep! After his 5 am feeding we bring him upstairs for snuggles in our room. I didn't mention this in our 1 month update, but we actually started putting him to sleep in his crib (in his nursery downstairs) at about 4 weeks old. We have a great bassinet next to our bed where he was sleeping each night...but after a while I noticed how broken and inconsistent his sleep was in it. He just never seemed comfortable and was always thrashing around. Not to mention, I couldn't sleep a wink as I responded to EVERY little coo and sound he made. Throughout the day I put him down for naps in his crib and immediately I noted how peaceful his sleep was during those naps...he just slept so soundly in it and I couldn't tell you why. I was SO terrified and hesitant to move him to his crib so soon. I mean I literally planned on sharing a room with him until he was at least 6 months, but at the end of the day I didn't want to compromise both his and our sleep just for the comfort of knowing he was right next to me. SO with that, I ran out and bought the Angelcare baby monitor (it detects motion and an alarm will sound if breathing is not detected after a 20 second time span), it was the only way I'd go through with the transition. Sure thing, the little bugger slept for a good 6 hour stretch that night! He's been sleeping in his crib ever since.
Anyway, after our morning snuggles we typically get up for the day at about 7:30-8am. By that time he's shark attacking for a breakfast boob. Of course after feedings there's the burping, diaper changes, etc., but we won't include those in this daily schedule as most mommies know those occur randomly and a million times a day. In the early morning after feeding, I lay monkey down on his jungle play mat where he ooh's and ah's by himself for a good 20-30 minutes. At this time momma slips in her breakfast and morning cup o' tea. By 10:00 we're getting ready for our daily walk. This is where he gets a good one hour nap in or more, we've yet to go on a walk in his stroller where he hasn't fallen asleep. After our walk I usually let him finish out his nap and then strap him into a baby wrap so that I can tend to the laundry, tumbleweeds of fur we have rolling around (fortunately we have a baby who falls asleep to the sound of a vacuum), dishes, watering plants, etc..
As for a feeding schedule, we were going on an every 2-3 hour basis. However, with the recent growth spurts he's been on demand feeding which lately has been about every 1.5 hours. Which means right now throughout the day I'm practically topless for a majority of it.  After lunch he naps again and I try to squeeze in some me time by doing some yoga, perhaps a shower, (or let's be honest, taking a nap myself).
The afternoon is when we run any errands we may have or go on little adventures (like the zoo!). The typical feed-nap-change combo obviously continues on. By about 6pm my happy nugget starts to get a little fussy. That's another thing I can't explain, but hey, I guess the boy's allowed a fussy time. John and I try to squeeze in dinner during this time but usually have to eat in shifts. By 8:00pm we're starting our bedtime routine consisting of a feeding, bath, baby massage, and horrible singing from yours truly. :) We're also fortunate enough to have a babe that doesn't need to be completely asleep yet before we lay him in his crib. We put him down when he's drowsy and he does the rest with soothing himself to sleep...which makes it nice for mom. On average, he's down at the latest by 9:30 pm, and as I said earlier, sleeps to about 5am.
So there yah have it, a typical day in the life of Finn man. Now remember this is just a tidbit of what's consistent in our day to day, there's a lot that goes on in between those times like visiting friends and family, lots of laughing, sometimes crying, cleaning puke I'm not aware is on me until I stand up and feel warmth slide down my tummy and come out the bottom of my maxi, calming down a screaming babe...you get the idea. <3


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